Things You Should Never Say On Tinder

Never throw this statement out into the Tinderverse because it suggests immediate availability and can be construed as overtly sexual, according to Opert. She says, "Spontaneity is great, but stay on message. If you are looking for sex and [something] casual, then by all means, use this approach. But if your desire is to Tinder your way to a relationship, this approach, most likely, will not net you those types of dates."

If you still want to approach other users with some degree of spontaneity, Opert encourages going with something like, "I have a spare ticket to see such-and-such band tonight, wanna be my date?" This puts forth a specific situation and scenario, rather than a hint of random sex. It also leaves a little room for mystery and an "are we, or aren't we?" vibe.

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